I grew up in a sub-culture Indonesian Chinese family, where Chinese New Year is still a huge celebration for a family reunion with over 30 cousins and 16 aunties and uncles on my grandmother's mansion. Years have gone by that that is the rituals that I know and the food that we eat. Without passing the usual awkward conversations that you have with relatives once a year. When you are single they would ask 'oh where's your boyfriend/girlfriend', once you get married they will